Last couple of weeks

I am grateful and excited to be dating Melissa. She is not only beautiful on the outside, but she is an amazing and wonderful person on the inside. She is somewhat, she would let me, rest of my life. She does make me happy and I feel complete with her. She is a little difficult to read because I feel the emotions are there to pursue a relationship with me but she is a little hesitant to fully commit with me. She has been burnt in the past by her ex-husband Roman and Kurt. It will be hard for me to be patient because I want to give myself completely over to her. I wonder if she is nervous what her family will think or their reactions. She has been traumatized by Kurt where he came into her world and blew it up and now she is trying to put herself back together. She is hesitant of someone doing it to her again

So, I let this post go for a few days. But, we went on another date last night, Tuesday the 6th of August. I picked her up, as I usually do, from her sister’s house, Leah and Cade. We stayed by her house this time and went to Olympic Park to play pickleball but the courts were full. So, we actually went back to the courts by the Lehi house. We did a quick drive by to show her the house. It’s the first time she’s seen the place. We played a couple sets together. I think this has been the fourth time we’ve played. The good news is that she told me she got a job. I was so happy for her. She had been applying for over 1.5 years to different businesses and she has finally got an offer. She was telling me the emotions she was going through and it goes from happy, excited, nervous, apprehensive, and wondering how she’ll be able to perform 

Some other dates we’ve been on recently is Porcupine bar and Grill in front of Cottonwood Canyon, Cubby’s again and the movie Deadpool/Wolverine, Sundance Owl bar again. I need to get some pictures with her. I love dating Melissa!  I hope she will want to start the rest of our lives together. 

Some more dates with Melissa

 Tuesday, July 9th. We went to Cubby’s for dinner, played pickleball at Olympic Park and went for a short walk around the park and then went to Roxberry’s where Melissa got an açaí bowl and I got a raspberry smoothie (I think that’s what it was). At Cubby’s, the fun part of that was we talked about the church and and how it’s both been a blessing and has caused damage in our lives. I’m glad we can be vulnerable and open with each other. My heart and soul is connecting with hers and I am falling in love with Melissa. She is so beautiful and radiates inner beauty even more. She is a much better person than I am for which I’m grateful

Thursday, July 11th. I picked her up at 6:30 and we went to our third movie, Bad Boys, up in South Jordan. I did like the chairs more because you can raise the arm rest, so we were able to cuddle more while watching the movie. I could cuddle with Melissa 24/7 and be in her arms forever

Friday, July 12th. I was able to secure a picnic spot at Martin’s picnic area up AF canyon. I went there on my lunch break and got a tent put up with chairs and my cot and my Popeye’s lunch goodies out as evidence so it looked like we were having a picnic. We had firewood and had Jersey Mike’s sandwiches again for the third time. Melissa got her usual turkey sandwich on white bread. We had such a blast just playing our question game and sitting by the fire. When it started getting a little later, we made our way into the tent where we were able to cuddle and “connect” on a deeper inter connective way. We made love a couple times. She is so beautiful but not only with an exterior beauty. Her soul just radiates pure goodness and love. This was the third time we’ve had sex together and I felt it was the best session yet. I tried to make her happy and please her so I got her a gift. She was able to orgasm a couple of times which I loved. She did open up to me about one thing that she didn’t like. I talked dirty to her one time while making out and she informed me afterwards a few days later that she didn’t like that. It’s because her previous partners/husbands were addicted to porn. So, I’m glad I learned one more thing about her to make her happy. Just another testament to me that she is a pure soul and radiates raw beauty from within. She makes me want to be better. Not that I have anything to repent or be ashamed about. But, just that I feel we can build each other up and make each other better

Saturday, July 13th. After going swimming with Don at the legacy center and working out with him from 3:00 - 4:30ish, we left to go get Eli with his group of buddies and Melissa. We went to Chuck-a-Rama as per the kid’s request. So, that was alright. Melissa said she hadn’t been there in many years and that it might be many more before she goes back 😂 Not her favorite place to eat although she liked the salad bar. She knows Chuck is where Nichole and I met. And, she used to take Asher and Tatiana to Chuck when they were younger.  After Chuck-a-Rama, we decided to have a night cap at Gourmandise where we just talked outside and had a couple drinks. I love Melissa!!

4th of July weekend

 Our neighborhood has had fireworks in our park for almost the last 14 years straight, but the city came in and shut it down this year. So, we didn’t get to go to a show this year. It all worked out though. We were able to buy a few of our own and Eli saw some with some neighbors down the street. 

I was able to go on a date with Melissa this last Monday to Boondocks. She got a couple hole in 1’s. Then, we went to a park again to hang out for a little bit after mini golfing. We went to the one in North Highland next to the Murdoch trail where we just hung out and played our get-to-know-you card game. 

Friday, we went to pickleball, then go karts and the to top golf and the pool. 

Saturday, Melissa and I went up to Park City Village and did the scenic chairlift ride, went to BajaMexico restaurant there in the Village and then went back to the Staybridge hotel where we made love. 

Run up to Alien Tower

 

Eli with Seth and Van

 

Eli the fisherman

 

Some more dates with Melissa

Since last writing about Melissa, she ended up going to Idaho a couple weekends ago. So, yeah, I had to let her go for a few days. The pictures of the cabin are those of her family’s cabin. She got out on the lake and did some paddle boarding. 

Date #5. Tuesday, June 25. The Cliff Restaurant over in Sandy. Melissa got the blackened salmon and a couple beers while I got a mimosa and halibut. We then went back to Highland Glen park and sat on the bench and cuddled and made out a little bit until the cops came over to the lake and shined their high beams on us from across the lake. Who knew their was a curfew

Date #6. Friday, June 28. Top Golf and a movie (The Quiet Place day 1), then up the canyon to go sit on a rock next to the river and just cuddle. Yes, Melissa kicked my butt in golf. Who knew she was gonna be so consistent with her swing. She is so fun to hang out with. The feelings are definitely intensifying for her

Date #7. Saturday, June 29. Picnic up to Granite Flats campground. I really wanted to make this date a little more meaningful because I was overly exhausted the day before. I went up to the campground and reserved a spot to assure we’d have somewhere to have a picnic. The picnic areas are first come first serve. I’m glad I did. We drove up to the spot but then continued up to have our Jersey Mike’s sub sandwich up at Silver Lake. Melissa got the same thing she got the first time we went there which was her turkey sandwich with lettuce, tomatoes, pickles, and kept it dry no mayonnaise. Plus her Diet Pepsi. We had a fun time playing a get-to-know-you game. I’m glad I got a different game this time cuz the questions were so much better. Last time we did this the game was all about sex and intimacy…kind of a bust for just barely getting to know each other. This time, we had such a blast just gabbing and laughing for a while. My soul is really connecting with hers. We then went into the tent where we were able to cuddle. We got intimate and I loved caressing her whole body and feeling her close and embracing all of Melissa. She is so beautiful both outer and inwardly. My heart yearns for her, she is consuming all of my thoughts and emotions